About the Author

Black. Christian. Healing out loud—anonymously.

I’ve carried more labels than luggage: caregiver, single parent, trauma survivor, lifelong church girl, and the designated “strong one” in a family that didn’t talk about mental health.
For decades I prayed my struggles away in silence—until I realized faith and feelings can (and should) coexist.

Here, in Black, Christian, and ___, I process the messy middle ground:

  • navigating grief while caregiving an aging parent
  • unpacking anxiety, depression, and attachment wounds
  • balancing Bible study, therapy, and single‑parent life
  • stepping out on faith even when fear shouts louder (Matthew 14:29‑31)

This blog isn’t for judgment or gossip. It’s a journal in real time—proof that Black Christians are allowed to wrestle with mental health and still love Jesus wholeheartedly.

If you’ve ever been told to “pray it away,” pull up a seat. We’re crossing this healing finish line together—one honest post at a time.