Tag: anxious attachment
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On another episode of Black, Christian and maybe after this one we’ll figure out the exact subtitle. I’ve been gone for a minute. Not off the earth. Just inside myself. I thought about disappearing somewhere dramatic. The Himalayas. Bali. Somewhere with linen pants and silence. But instead, I stayed home. Ordered books. Opened my Bible.…
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I’m…single single. And this time, it hits differently. I’ve lost weight. I’m feeling myself again. I’m healing. And yet… no one’s checking for me. No one’s asking for my number. No one’s texting “Hey stranger.” It’s just me, God, and the rain hitting my window on this stormy night. And for the first time in…
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I never knew what “avoidant attachment” was until I met Bradley. I thought we were just different — emotionally mismatched. I thought I was asking for too much, being too sensitive, or expecting a kind of love that didn’t exist anymore. But the more I prayed for clarity, the more I started digging. And what…
